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Saturday, March 26, 2005

So happy.. my baby niece was born on 11 March 2005 at Thomson Medical Centre at 4.46pm. Tat day was my cousin's bday oso. Taken on the 2nd day when I c her at the hospital.

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Taken jus now when i went over at 9pm. She's still awake. eyes open big big.

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After washing up & some milk, she was sound aslp.

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I love babies.. they r so cute & adorable. feel like having 1 of my own. but aft hearing my cousin describing the labour pain, i'm scared but stil i wana hav a child of my own. so how?

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HuRt Is PaRt Of BeInG iN LoVe.. AnD LoVe Is PaRt Of BeInG aLiVe..

11:33 PM

Whenever we did smth wrong, we'll ask for forgiveness, hope we'll gt a chance to change it.
We jus learnt the lesson fr the mistake & the reason we asked for giving a chance is we wana prevent the same mistake fr happenin again.
We hope others can giv a chance to let us turn a new leaf, live for a new life.
forget the past mistake...

But, if u still really wana giv a person a chance to change/amend his mistakes, pls dun remind him abt his wrongdoings in the past.
If U giv somebody a chance to change, pls forget his mistakes.
forgive him thoroughly... dun remind/remember his past mistakes.
If u kept remindin him the past mistake,
how r u expectin him to change?
He'll jus only rem his past mistake, and sometimes he'll repeat the same mistakes again.

If u really wana giv somebody a chance,
let him amend his mistakes, pls support him.
Dun remind him abt the past.
Giv him a new life.

Therefore, if u really wana giv somebody a chance,
u muz tink twice b4 u promise him.
U muz forgiv him thoroughly.
U muz not remind him abt the past mistake.
Dun let him live in the past mistake
He has learnt his lessons fr the past mistake.
Giv him a real chance to amend it.
Fr there u can c his changes.

HuRt Is PaRt Of BeInG iN LoVe.. AnD LoVe Is PaRt Of BeInG aLiVe..

3:58 PM

It's very hard to read ppl's mind. U might be very close to tat person, but u may not be able to read his/her mind.
It's hard to find a person who can really understand u well, read ur mind.
If u can find a person like tat, he/she might be ur bossom fren, therefore, u muz cherish him/her.

Everybody hopes tat their lovers can read their minds, understand them well.
When either party is sad or troubled, another party can console them, support them, always by their side without saying out anytin.
The other party mus noe when their parties need their help, concerns,
& when their parties would like to be alone to cool down.
All these r jus kind of tactic understanding among 2 parties.
It's very hard to find such couples.

Everytime, when we started to get to noe & understand another party well,
den we'll start getting closer & closer to them.
But, these kind of frens can nv becum lover.
U'll ask for more for ur lover, u'll yearn tat he/she will treat u beta.

For ur bossom fren, u'll b happy tat he/she concern abt u always.
he/she jus hav to lend u ears while u r troubled,
he/she will jus help u solve the prob, understand u well.

But, for ur lover, u r nt jus askin for tat.
u'll ask for more.
U need more concern & caring frm him/her
U wan ur lover by ur side always
u wan ur lover understand u well & to be the 1st one to support u always.

Tat's y sometimes when frens bcum lover,
their relationship will change.
Mayb both parties will be happier if remain as frens, mayb they r jus fated & more suitable as gd frens rather den lovers.
So, dun force ur partner if he/she really wana go back to the frens' stage.
Juz respect his/her decision.

If ur lover really cnt read ur mind,
juz tell her/him frankly abt ur tinking
dun let him/her guess.
Guessing game is nt fun, but tiring
Try to spare more time wif ur lover if u can
Dun regret it only when u lose it.
It'll be too late.

If u really determine to salvage the relationship,
Try ur best & nv let the chance slip away.
But, if u really tried, yet, u still cnt change ur lover's mind
jus giv him/her up...
Force means no happiness..
U love him/her cos u jus wana giv him/her happiness...
if let go is a relief for him/her
jus let him/her go....
dun make him/her more miserable

HuRt Is PaRt Of BeInG iN LoVe.. AnD LoVe Is PaRt Of BeInG aLiVe..

3:44 PM

Most of the times, couples will hav a guessing game among themselves.
They jus keep everyting inside their hearts, hoping tat their partners
will noe wat they r tinking.
But, if u din say out wat's troubling u, u cnt expect others to guess
or even read ur mind. Ppl will get tired easily & guessing game
is tiring. Y cnt we jus be frank?

But, when couples r frank to each other, problems still arise.
Y? Guessing game is tiring, wana be frank oso gt problems arise.
Is it really tat tough to maintain a relationship?

When couples started understand each other more, problems will arise
due to the diff character.
when both parties started to be frank, clear up everyting, say out everyting frankly, prob will arise again.
Y?

For example, if a gal tell her bf tat she makes a decision abt smth tat might nt be approved by her bf, but she hopes her bf will approve it. Then sometimes, her bf will support her, sometimes nt. But, if her bf really wana support her, is it being forced or he really wana support his gf willingly?
Wat if he is being forced, but he jus kept quiet, & say will support her decision?
Is he being frank to her?

But for the same example, if the gal decided to hide it fr her bf, she felt
guilty cos her bf will find out 1 day in future. At tat time, her bf
will get angry & problems arise again.

So is it good to b frank to each other? Another situation is, only 1 party
is frank, while other party din do tat way.
Sometimes, both parties still hav 2 hide smth to prevent quarrellings.
But, most of the time, problems still arise while hiding smth.
It's really nt a gd decision to hide smth.
Both parties muz be frank to each other then can solve the problems.

While sometimes, 1 party will hide all the troubles inside his/her heart.
Jus dun wana say it out. Mayb the troubles is bcos of their partners.
But, when quarreling, They'll say out all the troubles tat caused the change of attitude of themselves.
But, their partners nv noe wat they did had arise so many troubles for their loved 1.
Cos, their partners nv told them abt tat!~!~
So, being frank is very important!~!~

Be frank to ur partner while neccessary
Find a free time hav a gd chat wif ur partner to solve any misunderstandings between both of u.
Jus tok everyting & clear up everyting frankly so u wont repeat the same mistakes again.

HuRt Is PaRt Of BeInG iN LoVe.. AnD LoVe Is PaRt Of BeInG aLiVe..

3:39 PM

Y loving somebody is so miserable?

"It's blessed when u r being love by somebody, It's miserable when u love somebody"
Is it true? Y? Is it jus bcos when u r being love, u nv cherish him/her
tat's y u learnt ur lesson only when u met ur dream gal/guy den u noe wat's Love?

Y love is so troublesome, complicated? Y mus couples encounter so many obstacles during the time they r 2gether?
Is it wat we so-called "True Love"?
Y sometimes when a couple really love each other so much yet they still cnt b 2gether? is tis fated??? y heaven mus mske a fun out of them?

Is there anytin fair in the world? Nth is fair!~!~ NTH is perfect!~~!
IF the world is fair, thr wont be any diff between gals & guys.
everything will be possible 4 everybody..
but, up til now, guys still cnt get pregnant, although gals managed to get most of the job tat guys cn do.
So, is it fair?

Is all the things in tis world fated? It's depend on Destiny whether u'll meet a gd/bad guy/gal...
But, if heaven did giv u a chance to get to noe somebody,
but u jus slip the chance & let Fate decide all tis, is it called "FATE"?
I dun tink so, sometimes when u get a chance, u mus grab it, dun lose it..

Sometimes, couples broke off due to they understand each other too well.
The reason they go for stead is bcos they wish to understand more. Den y they broke? Is it every couple mus gone thru tis den end up wif broke off?

Sometimes, u dun wana break up, but due to the situation, u hav to break.
is it fated??? is it when human came to tis world den we got no choice?
tat's y it cause love to be the most miserable stage, relationship among all other relationship such as kinship, frenship.
We cnt choose our parents, but we can choose frens.
We can hav many frens, but hard to find 1 true bossom fren.
We can hav many crushes, but only hav 1 person tat will stay in ur heart 4eva & tat person is the 1 u love most, but u cnt be wif him/her 4eva.
U'll meet a person who loves u most den u'll meet a person whom u luv him/her most. Cos after u noe the feeling being luv, den u'l noe how to love others.

HuRt Is PaRt Of BeInG iN LoVe.. AnD LoVe Is PaRt Of BeInG aLiVe..

3:29 PM

Guys are always the careless chap. They dun really understand gals' feeling & heart.
They might 4gt many small matter which means alot to the gals.
For example, guys might forget when's their bday, 1st yr anniversary, where is their 1st kiss, where they 1st meet, where they hold their gals' hands, where ask the gals to be their gf.. etc.

When quarrelling, guys will apologise 1st most of the time.
Cos they r afraid of gals' tears.
They felt hurt, sad when c their gals crying for them if they do really love their gal alot.
During quarrelling, both parties were angry & might act harsh. All these is jus a form to vent out their anger.

For guys, they might scold the gals, shout at them, beat them or do anyting foolishly. But they'll jus apologise & coax the gals immediately. They'll promise wont repeat the mistake again. Saying they were jus out of control...
Of cos., gals will definitely understand tat & forgive them.

On the other hand, for gals, they might throw away many things, messed up the place etc...
Somtetimes, they'll jus say wana broke off out of anger...
But, once the guys heard broke off fr gals' mouth, they'll jus agreed wif tat...
Both parties were jus vent out their anger...
They dun really mean tat...
But, once the guys jus agreed broke off wif the gals,
Gals will be sad...
Gals always dun act according to their heart.
Most of the time, they'll juz say smth out of anger, to scare their guyz, they dun really mean tat...
But, once the guys agree wif that, they'll tink actually the guyz has alr think tat way. So they'll feel sad & hurt.

Dun ever say broke off or any hurting words during quarrelling.
mayb u jus out of control..but, try nv say all that when both parties were angry.
It may turn out smth unforgivable..wont be able to salvage it anymore
And u'll regret it..

Think twice b4 u act...
Think everything thoroughly b4 u cum to a decision...
Dun act harsh, do anyting hurting ur partner jus out of anger...
Cherish wat u hav nw...
Treat them as gd as u can...

HuRt Is PaRt Of BeInG iN LoVe.. AnD LoVe Is PaRt Of BeInG aLiVe..

3:21 PM

In a relationship, both parties mus hav trust in each other.
If u dun hav trust & confidence in ur partner,
The relationship will not be stable & wont last long.

Outsider or 3rd party will deliberately spoilt the relationship easily if both parties dun hav enuf trust in their partners.

For example, if a 3rd party deliberately messed up everyting between u & ur partner, and create some misunderstanding between both of u, u'll soon misunderstand ur partner and suspect him/her if u dun hav enuf faith in him/her. After tat, u'll soon quarrel wif ur partner, suspect each other, losing confidence in him/her, and end up break off.

Therefore, dun quarrel over small matter, dun jealous over a specific person who might be deliberately spoilt ur relationship wif ur partner.
Hav confidence & trust in ur partner.
Dun let others hav the chance to spoil ur relationship.
Talk everyting out frankly, clearly.
Dun leave any doubt wif ur partner b4 making any assumption cos it's unfair 2 him/her.

Hear his/her explaination b4 making any decision, so u wont regret ...
Never lie 2 ur partner, coz he/she will lost his/her trust in u...
Be frank 2 him/her...
Share everyting wif ur partner..
Den luv will last long..

HuRt Is PaRt Of BeInG iN LoVe.. AnD LoVe Is PaRt Of BeInG aLiVe..

3:17 PM

Everybody has their own decision.
B4 u made a certain decision, think twice b4 u act.
Once u hav made a decision, nv regret abt it.

Once somebody made a mistake, they'll ask for 1 more chance.
Den they'll try to change it.
U always like to giv dem a chance cos u r the 1 who really love him/her very much.
If they repeat the same mistake again, u'll still giv him/her a chance.
But, if u keep giving him/her a chance, will he/she really change?
Sometimes yes, sometimes no.
Once u giv him/her too many chances, u'll gt tired....
ur loved 1 will always ask 4 more chances... therefore, they'll continue make the same mistake again.

Once u r given a chance, grab it, dun miss it...
Treasure watever chance you hav...
Mayb it's the last chance tat ur loved 1 gave u.
Dun keep disappointing him/her again!~!~!~
Try to amend ur mistake, dun repeat it...
Prove it to him/her u really can change it!~~!
cos ur loved 1 will gt tired 1 day & the feeling will fade

* Cherish the chance u had now.. Never let it go or waste it.
Once u slip it, U wont get it back.
Treasure watever u hav now.

HuRt Is PaRt Of BeInG iN LoVe.. AnD LoVe Is PaRt Of BeInG aLiVe..

3:11 PM

Everytimes, when a couple met a critical period, had a serious quarrel, they'll juz hav a mind to break up while they were angry.
But when they jus broke off out of harsh, they'll regret it after tat.

While sometimes, when a couple quarrelled many times, and 1 party juz cnt take it anymore, he/she will hav a serious thought of breaking up.
He/she might love his/her partner very much, so he/she jus cnt let it go, and they'll jus drag it & continue their relationship.
But, is it a gd decision?

Mayb u do really love him/her a lot. so u cnt really let go. Cos u really dun wana lose him/her. U'll get deep deep hurt if u jus let go cos of small matters.
R u making a gd decision?

Is it salvaging the relationship or dragging it?
If only 1 party salvage, while another party din, is it useful?
it's only dragging, & will hurt both parties more deeper.
But, if both party did put lots of effort to salvage it, it's worth to continue it.
So mus tink twice b4 u made a gd decision.

It's true tat it's hurt if u let go.
But, if u jus dragging longer, u'll jus hurt each other deeper.
It's unfair to both parties.
Feeling will fade,
Try to let go when neccessary..
U might get hurt, but it's beta den u r hurt deeper...

HuRt Is PaRt Of BeInG iN LoVe.. AnD LoVe Is PaRt Of BeInG aLiVe..

3:05 PM

It's difficult 2 maintain a relationship. Both party have to put in lots of effort, give in each other under any situation to prevent quarrels all the time.

With no doubt, there's still no fairness between boys & gals.

For boys, if they just go astray, having affairs wif other gals, their gal will still forgive them, or jus say he's flirt, he jus do it cos he's too stressed etc.
Some gals still allow their boys to go for 2 timer. They jus bear wif his action, his everyting, jus wanna be wif him.

In the contrast, if gals juz go 2 timer, boys will jus insult the gal, called her slut, bitch etc..
They cnt stand gals go for 2 timer. And they will break off wif tat gal.

Is this fair? Y guyz can do tat while gals cnt?

Guys oso like to get jealous over small things. If his gf went out wif a guy alone, or juz go a little bit closer to another guy, their bf will jealous over tis & quarrel wif her.

On the other hand, if a guy closer to a gal, his gf will jealous too. but the guy will jus say they r frens, ask his gal dun tink too much. den sweet talk to his gf & solve the problem. Y guyz can jus coax a gal so easily while gal hav to tolerate wif so many things. Is this fair?

Guyz love to be chauvinism & possessive. They wants their gals listen watever they said, they wanna tie up their gals, restrict their freedom, asked them stay at hm b a gd hsewife etc.

But, when gals do the same things to her bf, they'll jus complain & said they dun wanna be tied up, they wan freedom etc. Ia this fair?

HuRt Is PaRt Of BeInG iN LoVe.. AnD LoVe Is PaRt Of BeInG aLiVe..

2:54 PM

I want nothing more than to be loved.

Some girls care about looks, some care about brains, but ALL girls want a guy who will love and care for them. I'm one of them.

Love means devotion, caring and happiness to a girl, in that order.

Hearing the words "I love you" is a great reassurance to a girl that she is beautiful.

HuRt Is PaRt Of BeInG iN LoVe.. AnD LoVe Is PaRt Of BeInG aLiVe..

2:20 PM

Friday, March 25, 2005

1. Never take your spouse for granted.

2. Avoid thinking only of me, myself & I. Live & think together as a couple.

3. Negotiate & compromise. Fights & quarrels never help any relationship.

4. Set goals for your relationship & work hard towards achieving dem.

5. Always treat each other with love & respect in everything tat you do.

6. Confide & communicate with each other to avoid misunderstandings.

7. Create a trusting and secure environment for a strong relationship.

8. Make the effort; it's the little acts that make the difference.

9. Share & encourage each other's interest & passions.

10. Offer unconditional love without any obligations or strings attached.

HuRt Is PaRt Of BeInG iN LoVe.. AnD LoVe Is PaRt Of BeInG aLiVe..

9:32 PM

LADIES...

Find a guy who calls you beautiful instead of hot,
who calls you back when you hang up on him,
who will stay awake just to watch you sleep.

Wait for the boy who kisses your forehead,
who wants to show you off to the world when you are in your sweats,
who holds your hand in front of his friends,
who thinks you're just as pretty without makeup on.

Wait for the one who is constantly reminding you of how much he cares about you and how lucky he is to have you.

Wait for the one who turns to his friends and says, "...that's her."

GUYS...

Find a girl who calls you baby faced instead of hot or sexy,
who can't stand it when you hang up on her and calls right back,
who would sit there for hours looking into your eyes,
who doesn't care what you look like, but what's inside counts the most,
who looks at you with the twinkle in her eyes and kisses you on the cheek instead of the lips,
who wants to be with you in public, even if you wear those old grass stained and ripped pants with the bleached jersey like always.

Wait for the girl who is a constant reminder of your happiness and joy,
who makes you smiles just by knowing she loves you back.

Wait for the girl who you give piggy back rides to in public and she still is in view of her friends, while she gets off and you hear her go: "you're the one for me, for always"

HuRt Is PaRt Of BeInG iN LoVe.. AnD LoVe Is PaRt Of BeInG aLiVe..

8:14 PM

Thursday, March 24, 2005

When I look at u with eyes full of questions, I'm wondering how long you will be around.

When I stare at you, I'm wondering why you are lying.

When I lay on your chest, I'm wishing for you to be mine forever.

When I call you everyday, I'm seeking for your attention.

When I want to see you everyday, I want to be pampered.

When I sms u everyday, I want you to reply at least once.

HuRt Is PaRt Of BeInG iN LoVe.. AnD LoVe Is PaRt Of BeInG aLiVe..

11:56 PM

I'm very tired now. I can't take it anymore.

No one can help me cos mi oso duno how to rescue myself.

HuRt Is PaRt Of BeInG iN LoVe.. AnD LoVe Is PaRt Of BeInG aLiVe..

7:49 AM